Not sure how to write an eulogy for a loved one’s funeral?
If you’re struggling with writing an eulogy, please know you’re not alone.
Many people find it challenging to express their emotions and memories in words during such an emotional time.
That’s why we’ve put together this step-by-step guide to help you write a thoughtful and meaningful eulogy that truly honours your loved one’s life and memory.
Writing a eulogy
Giving a eulogy is an incredible honour and privilege that allows us to celebrate the life and legacy of those who have passed.
As a guide, a typical eulogy should contain the following key elements:
Introduction: When starting a eulogy, it’s important to acknowledge and thank the audience for being there. This shows gratitude and helps you connect with those who have come to support you during this difficult time. A simple phrase such as “Thank you all for coming” can go a long way in setting the tone for your speech.
Short Story: When writing a eulogy, ’’s customary to include a brief anecdote about the deceased that highlights their unique personality or special qualities. These stories can range from lighthearted and humorous to sombre and reflective.
The story may focus on the individual’s achievements, life events, impact on others, childhood memories, or important life experiences such as marriage, family, or travel.
Favourite memories: When writing a eulogy, it is common to incorporate one or two cherished memories shared between the speaker and the departed, much like in a story.
The recollection can be of any level of intricacy, depending on personal preference and appropriateness.
Important Quote: When writing a eulogy, you can incorporate your loved one’s preferred passage, verse, quote, or poem. Additionally, if a specific passage or quote holds significance and relevance, you may also choose to include it.
Conclusion: Conclude the eulogy by summarising the individual’s influence on others and expressing gratitude to the family and attendees. Additionally, incorporating a beloved quote or passage may be a suitable way to end the eulogy.
Eulogy writing: tips
For more writing tips, please read our article 4 Tips for Writing a Eulogy, which includes tips on what to write and what not to write in an eulogy.
Still stuck? There are several eulogy templates and plenty of examples of other people’s eurologies online that you can draw inspiration from.
A step-by-step guide on how to write a eulogy
Writing a thoughtful and heartfelt message during a difficult time can be challenging. However, with the help of this step-by-step guide, expressing your emotions and memories in words can become a bit easier.
Remember to take your time, be honest, and focus on the positive memories you share with your loved one. Don’t be afraid to open up and let your feelings flow onto paper. Your words will undoubtedly make an impact on those who receive them.
If you need help organising a funeral, Anton Brown Funerals is here to help. Contact us here to find out more today.
Anton Brown Funerals is a family-owned, Queensland funeral company which was established in 1995.
Our Brisbane-based team of funeral directors are honest, professional, compassionate and understanding, and always put our clients and their needs first.
We go above and beyond to ensure your loved one’s funeral arrangements are tailored to their final wishes and can assist you with burials, cremations, coffins, floral arrangements, pre-planning and more.
If you need help organising a dignified funeral service, we are available to discuss arrangements 24/7, so please don’t hesitate to reach out to us today on (07) 3217 3088 or send us a message online here.
